Social Media & We

Evolution of the world is still a mystery. Each species is unique in nature with its own set of advantages & disadvantages. The advantage of a man lies in the ability to Think and Make and the disadvantage lies in Think & Break. One side of him wants to Use and the other side wants to Misuse. The God in him says Appreciate but the Devil in him growls Criticize. A transparent medium has been created to use & to misuse, to Appreciate & to criticize, to Boast & to be modest, to speak  & to suppress, to  Learn & to Teach, to share & to Snatch and the whole world has fallen apart. There is ruckus everywhere. As a result,  a huge revolution called Information revolution has taken place, thanks to Social Media.

We can never live the way we once lived. WWW & 2G together have revolutionized everything. It has made the world a smaller, cheaper and a well-connected place. It has given the word “Miss” a miss. IOS and Android keep you engaged throughout the day more than your work. E-paper & online news websites get you tons of interesting bits that keep you occupied for a very long time. Networking professionally and personally happens across locations 24*7 & more importantly you will never forget your wife’s birthday anymore with regular updates from everywhere.

Why the social media has done exceeding well is that with a username and an 8 letter password it has given you an Identity and Voice. Another important reason for its success is your excessive interest in someone else’s life.  It has opened the floodgates of constructive thoughts, poetic expression and underlying anxieties but at the same time it brought along Abuse, Criticism and Plagiarism. It has also reduced the barriers between the celebrity world and the common man but it also propagated hate among them at the same time. It can bring you together with your closest friend but it can also distance you from the same over a petty issue. It is a great way to promote your business but businesses include Porn & Adultery. It gives you fond memories & worse experiences at the same time.

The impact is huge and irreversible. It gave us voices but we turned it into noise. There is a lot of negativity in the air. When we compare our lives 10 years ago and today, a lot has changed. Our mindsets, preferences, attitudes, habits have gone for a spin. Internet, chatting and dating have become a necessity. It’s immature to comment on whether social media is good or bad but the impact is definitely there right from governance to gang rapes. It depends on where you stand between the extremes.

PS:  Social Media is like electricity, it has become so addictive that we cannot imagine our lives without it. It has such great potential that it is driving an entire generation on its track. Its job doesn’t end by giving a confirmed ticket to the passenger but also an enriching journey.

The other side of the Dice

Even before I sleep everynight my mind always makes "Educated Guesses" of what might be the headlines in the next day's news papers. And thats what I cross verify each and everyday in the morning whether my guesses are "educated" enough or not. But off late I dont know why my guesses are slightly off the hook but I am starting to get it completely wrong. Two words which feature in these headings very often is one of the causes for this. COMMUNAL & SECULAR.




I have been trying to understand these from a long time but the newspapers here havent helped me at all. I always find only one Section or rather let me be open on this I always find only the HINDU community pointed at under the so called COMMUNALISM flag. It was "mostly" before but now its "only" hindus. I really dont understand why is this. Just a small clue that a hindu has been involved in a terror plot created waves in the media and they were all over it in a flash. After the Ayodhya verdict a group of hindu lawyers were showing signs of victory and the media made such a great story out of it that one of the national news channels compared them even to KASAB. National security we talk about always and COMMUNALISM is the Biggest Threat to it. I TOTALLY AGREE WITH THAT STATEMENT. And then I look for those COMMUNAL organizations that really are a threat to the society. And to my surprise the only common names I find in the media are the organizations affliated to the Sangh parivar. RSS, Bajrang Dal and thats it. a faint mention of lashkar-e-toiba. hardly i find news about Indian mujahedeen,jaish-e-mohammad,SIMI and the chota mota organization be it any community. But almost each and everyday the newspapers carry articles saying "terrorists detained in link with planned blast" "suspect terrorists arrested for carrying arms" "terrorists identified in link with the terror plots" etc. and the problem is that the media never gives out the name of the terrorist organization to us unlike the way a sadhu yadav or a swamy assemananda gets national attention and also coverage. the problem with indian communalism is pretty simple , if terror attack  is planned on Sachin Tendulkar and is then neutralised , the reception would be totally different depending on who plans it.If the terrorist was a hindu then the headlines would surely read "Hindu terrorists plan to kill sachin". If any other community plans it other than a hindu organization would it alteast make the headings? Can the media use the organization's name as freely as they use RSS. Will there be the same kind of disscussion boards in the country? Is terrorism also commnal or are we making it communal? 'Saffron terror" does it make sense?
Terrorism has no boundaries,no religion,no commnity and no ideology. All the terrorists be it hindu or muslim or sikh or christian they belong to a single community called Terror with the only motive being creating havoc in the nation and unstability. a terrorist is a terrorist anyday and he has no other name or religion. I dont know if terrorism is the biggest threat to the nation or as the press says is it Saffron terror? do we have the guts to point out to a muslim and say he is a terrorist and he is a muslim atleast in India? no...


a sadhu yadav is as much a terrorist as osama bin laden if proved.. she is a terrorist but not a saffron terrorist...  we can never be united in this country but  atleast let us unite all the terrorist under one umbrella and call them terrorists.. Afterall we lose our lives to them and we sacrifice our dear ones let it be under the cover of zihad or saffron... there is only one common word for all such and that is terrorist only without any prefixes or suffixes.. and one such can be defined as the only kind of animal species in this world who is overjoyed by killing people of the race his/her birthgiver belonged to...


hence there is only one side to the dice called terrorist with the other sides manmade for personal interest which spoil the game

Am Ashamed

all the people who want to die in this world.. This is for u  that i am dedicating this post....

Id love to start off saying Please die as soon as youll can. Please... you assholes are a burden to our mother earth. A real let down to human beings you all are...

Y i am ashamed is that its a pity that your mothers have spent 9 tough months giving birth to you crooks... That was such a waste of time for them.. forget the time what about the pain... Those labour pains are the most painful things in this world... and it goes off waste... and then as soon as you are born that is the happiest moment in their lives .. they celebrate not knowing at that moment that you are such a cowardly basterd who doesnt have the courage to live.. and they start loving you like hell which no other person can give you in your life.. They love you like crazy saving every rupee for your future so that you can enjoy and lead a great life.. they make  your dreams their dreams and build castles in the air for your bright future and make sure that you get the best of everything in this world.. they have one and only world and that is you anbd your success and as you grow they start to feel proud as your achievements come over... they grieve more than you for your failure and try and instill confidence in you so that you can again become a winner...

and many more.. and thats y i am ashamed of these fools.... because they dont know the value of life and the things they do... Love is a bitchy glitch that takes away the sensibility of a person... and you fall in that trap.. it is like medipandu so sweet and beautiful from outside but within it it has all insects... and you forget everything else... your mother father brother sister aunt uncle teacher friends this world everything is gone... what is left is you and your lover and once one of them goes and everything in this world is gone...

youll are a waste in this world .. its a real waste that your parents gave birth to you which they will obviously cry throughout their life for what you did...

and one last thing before you die  think once of the millions of people who want to live badly in this world but cannot because they dont have food to eat,

think of the lakhs of people who lost their lives due to natural calamities without their mistake but  because of people like you who cause nature's fury

think of the thousands who are crippled who dont have hands and legs like you but still go on to live thanking god for atleast giving them what they have

think of the hundreds in hospitals and on death beds who want to live so badly but cannot because of their own misdeeds or due to their fates

 think about the tens of people who have wasted their valuable time on u and with you hoping that you would one day fulfill all their dreams and who have equipped you with all the necessary elements needed to face this world.

and think about the only one whose heart would stop and break the moment she comes to know that you are no more in this world

I pity that god must have atleast substituted lives of people who wanted to live ... that would have been justice

youll are murderers who will be wasting the time and efforts of so many ppl and will go away betraying them..

there is no much difference between youll and terrorists.. the only difference is the kind of killing.. they do it physically and youll do it mentally...

am ashamed to be in the same world in which you all are in...

Sid and Kid

Bench Strength

Top Leadership has always been a problem in India.This trend started emerging after Panditji's daughter pitched in for the PM's post after the demise of shastriji ,but nowadays it has become more of a alarming pattern in India's politics. We seem to be in a chaotic situation as the emergence of leadership in India has slowed down considerably . The bulk of this leadership has been coming only from a few "BIG" families. The GANDHI'S are leading from the front at the centre followed by strong regional empires in the states which include the Karunanidhi confusion(as the family is called famously for its complex relations), the YSR clan in AP where the legal heir is moving forward both in corruption and politics, the simple but slowly emerging scindias in MP and not to forget the abdullas at the top of our head.

Due to these patterns the power is rested only with those families and is not evenly distributed. It has become more of a monopoly where the psychophants are the key benefactors.

I call this alarmimg because India will be facing a serious drought in the coming days. Just because Rajiv gandhi was such a great administrator ,his son cannot be taken for granted on the same. The same with the others. We cannot rely on these spoiled brats who eat up their father's property for half of their lives and come into the main stream to carry forward the family legacy just because they dont have anything else to do.

I still dont understand what people like priya dutt. milind deora, sachin pilot,jyothiraditya scindia,jagan mohan reddy, stalin , alagiri,mulayam's son etc can do this country. Their survival in today's politics is a clear indication that we dont have options at the top. If we had, then these Clans would have ended long back instead of burdening the people.

The presence of these leaders as leaders is not a sign of encouragement for youth to opt politics as a serious career as even the worthful are being suppressed for a Price by the clans. The student leaders of the respective student wings are nowhere to be found once they are elevated to higher levels.We cannot let someone like a Jaganmohan reddy who is just Banking on his dad's fame to rule us. Then what should happen in this country? What is the Solution?

I dont know the solution. May be you have one which even i am waiting for. How to strengthen the indian political banch and who can do it? Welcome to this new world of finding out multiple solutions and choosing the best one. I would like all who have read this article to give a suggestion as to how canm this be improved?

And on this closing note, even a Revolutionary Leader Like KCR has a son like KTR waiting to replace him or second him in the party.

Battling The Monster

Starting in the building blocks of our body,

Spreads randomly making us feel shoddy.

It grows in us like a painless obnoxious weed,

Trying to destablilize and demoralize us until we concede.

It thinks that it is the king inside

Happy that we fell prey and it can completely reside.

Unware of the opponent that can conquer it

It tries to capture all that makes us fit.

In the process of looting our body and making us nothing

This dear friend encounters something

This I call The Human Resolve

Which Has an undefeated history whose mystery one can never solve

This resolve has taken us to the unending skies where no one has reached before

This resolve has taken us to greater depths in terms of technology and innovations

This resolve has taken us to newer horizons defeating all the enemies who try to win against us

And with the same resolve we face an enemy today called cancer

We can conquer this enemy with resolve in the battle field

With all the medical advancements as a supporting shield

We need to make our minds very strong

As that gives us the extra Grit to fight it out all along.

Let us Salute our Brothers and sisters

Who are fighting and defeating these growing monsters

We will treat them with utmost care

As they are the soldiers fighting CANCER with everlasting dare

These Soldiers are god's special children

Taking all the pain which one can never even dream

Inspiring us to fight with the Real Cancers in the world

Called corruption, terrorism ,racism, regionalism and hunger.

We all Should Raise our voices and pray

To cure CANCER that has come our way

Leaving it completely at an unidentified bay

Bringing happiness that will forever stay.

True Lies

On January 30, 1948 our country lost its father. In a broader sense it has lost a visionary, who gave a direction to the nation on how it should run. He left us but left to us great ideals which would lead help us frow into a stronger nation. The most important of which are TRUTH & NON-VIOLENCE.


We talk & debate so much about gandhi even today. Debate because some of his "stratagical" mistakes have seen light, talk about him not taking the extremist way, dub him as anti-bose. Unfortunate that we dont have the entire nation admiring that man but lets get some things straight .


Truth and non-violence are the toughest things in this world that can ever be practised. Telling the truth is surely next to impossible nowadays. To a mother a 5 year old son lies that he has stomach ache just not to go to school, to a father a son lies that he needs money for paying fee but not for a cinema ticket, to a wife the husband lies that he stopped smoking, to a girl friend a boy friend lies that he cannot live without her, to a boss an employee lies that he was stuck in the traffic jam for coming late, to the people a politician lies that he is uncorrupt and to the country the government lies that all their problems will be solved. Day in and day out we lie for everything and we cannot live without lying for two reasons
1) a Lie Satisfies all
2) a Lie is easier to say


It is not that but we all fear Truth because we know the Power of truth. Truth is so powerful that we cannot even live under its rays. Life becomes very very difficult even if in one of the above cases we start saying truth. Truth is always bitter as it sometimes breaks faith, breaks belief , breaks trust and more importantly breaks hearts. So inorder to build on the above we break truth itself and live in fear. Fear to face reality.
why is it we lie? We lie because we do not have the guts to face the reality, to escape embarassment,to satisfy our ego and to take a simpler path. It all sums up to FEAR. We FEAR truth because we are full of mistakes and we are making this world into a lie.


Truth is Pure. Its like fire which can be the light for those in darkness as well kill those who play it. It is the righteous path that can lead all of us to salvation. It is divine speaking which one gets to know one's real potential and the god inside and do wonders. It teaches you life in a difficult way but a life worthwhile and which can be remembered for ages. It brings new Enemies but eventually they succumb in front of Truth. Truth hurts you instantly but also relieves you from the guilt of not speaking it (a lie makes u happy instantly but hurts u permanently in the longer run). The values and relations which one builds around truth are always strong withstanding any tremor , but the ones built around lies seem stronger but will crumble to the smallest of the quakes.


Gandhiji spoke the truth and asked us to do the same and hence we hate him. He did something throughout his life which we cannot imagine doing even for a day. Lets put our hands on our heart and rewind backward to the day on which we spoke only the truth and not even a single lie. If there is one such day in our lives then am sure Gandhi would be a proud man. For all those who hate gandhi Speak truth for a week and then you will know his value and for all the lovers start speaking the truth atleast now to prove ur love and respect. Tribute to the great man.